Supporting your child’s learning

Ask your kids about their day and while some can’t wait to tell you everything they’ve learned, others may not share as much information. It helps if you ask your child an open question so that they can’t reply with a ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Here are some suggested questions. Let them know that they can always talk to you, or to their teacher, if they’re worried about anything at school.

It can be helpful to try to structure your evenings to help make the most of your time together. This doesn’t need to be the same every day, and will depend on what other commitments you have, but it’s good to have a rough plan of how your evenings will look throughout the week. You might want to think about:

• who’ll be at home each evening
• who’ll be out at an activity (like Brownies or a sport club)
• when they do their homework
• when you’ll have your dinner each day
• when you’ll spend time playing or relaxing together 
• what time everyone will go to bed. 

Routines help children feel secure as they get to know what’s happening and what will happen next. Our page on making daily life easier has more tips.

One of the best ways you can help your child with homework or learning at home activities is to sit with them to plan their time. Make sure there’s time set aside, so that they’re not doing it last thing at night. For example, how about giving them some time to relax and play when they get home, and then get them to do their homework or activities before or after tea? Or maybe they’d like to get their homework out of the way first, so that they have the rest of the evening free. Ask them what they’d prefer – although ‘not doing it at all’ isn’t an option!

It can help if children have a designated place to do their homework, away from other distractions like the TV. Different children like to work in different ways, so it’s nice to talk this through with them and maybe try out some different places. Remember, they may learn in a different way from you! Some kids may prefer to be in the same room as you, so they can ask questions and discuss their work, whereas others may prefer to be on their own so they can concentrate. Likewise, some may like to listen to music, while others may prefer peace and quiet.   
 

If your kids are full of energy and won’t settle to do their homework or learning at home activities, why not put on some music and get them jumping up and down or dancing for 10 minutes? This way they’ll burn off some energy and stay fit!

If the kids are tired and don’t feel like doing their homework or learning at home activities, a healthy snack like a piece of fruit or a cereal bar could perk them up and encourage them to get going.

Remember to offer them lots of praise and encouragement when they get on with their school work. Try to focus less on marks and grades and more on how hard they’re trying. So for example if they make a big effort to learn their spellings or work hard at a story or maths problem, let them know that you’ve noticed and are proud of them. You could even offer them small rewards for trying, like stickers or extra time playing, if that helps them focus.

If you have any concerns about your child’s learning, get in touch with their teacher to talk it through. The aim of homework and learning at home activities is to help children learn, not to upset or overwhelm them.

It’s really important for both you and your child to have time to enjoy together. Evenings and weekends are a good time to take their minds off school stresses through playing, relaxing and exercising. Play is a really important part of life, particularly at difficult times, and is actually part of Scotland’s school curriculum.

Playing helps children and young people:

• stay emotionally healthy
• stay physically active
• relax and forget about any worries
• learn and make sense of new experiences and changes in their world
• cope with feelings that are difficult or frightening

Play helps children become more creative, learn to solve problems and work out what they think and how to respond. It’s also important for older children and adults too! Our page on helping your child through play has more information about this.

So make sure you give your child enough time and space to play every day. No matter what age your child is, we have lots of play activity ideas that can help develop their skills, have fun and keep you fit and healthy as a family.

Shopping is a great way for children to learn. From spotting items that start with the same letter, reading labels, adding up and seeing how far their money will go, there are opportunities everywhere. Our pages on shopping with toddlers and children have lots of ideas.

Even if your kids think they’re too old for bedtime stories, reading together is a great way of spending quiet time together. Books and stories open up new worlds for children, giving you all new things to talk about and discuss. If you don’t know where to start, the Scottish Book Trust has good recommendations on their website. 

Baking and cooking are great ways of getting the kids to do maths and science without realising it! Weighing ingredients, looking at how things change when they’re mixed together. Our page on cooking with the kids and getting kids to help in the kitchen have lots of ideas you can try.

Love building blocks? There are loads of great YouTube videos on how playing with building blocks helps you to learn maths and building skills. Trying these could help make homework time more social and fun, rather than a chore.

Bus and car journeys are another opportunity to helps kids with their numbers and spelling and keep them busy. For example, you could try:

• playing i-spy
• counting all the red cars
• seeing how high they can count before the traffic lights change from red to green
• reading shop signs
• trying to make silly sentences out of the letters on car licence plates.

Many museums in Scotland are free to visit and offer a fun day out that will keep the kids happy while they learn more about the world – and they’re warm and dry if the weather’s rubbish too! Lots of museums offer free events for children too – check out the Museum Crush website to find museums and events near you. You might learn something new yourself!