If there’s one thing toddlers do well, it’s throwing a tantrum. A full-on temper tantrum is tough for you and frightening for your child. The good news is that a few simple strategies will help you deal with most of your child’s tantrums. Here are a few tried and tested tricks that may prevent tantrums happening in the first place. And if they don't always work, our page on what to do when your toddler has a tantrum has more advice.
Top tips for preventing tantrums
Tip #1: Be clear about your rules
Tip #1: Be clear about your rules
Tip #2: Be consistent
Tip #2: Be consistent
Tip #3: Expect them to behave well
Tip #3: Expect them to behave well
Tip #4: Lead the way
Tip #4: Lead the way
Tip #5: Try saying yes
Tip #5: Try saying yes
Tip #6: Be clear and specific
Tip #6: Be clear and specific
Tip #7: Offer them a choice where you can
Tip #7: Offer them a choice where you can
Tip #8: Help them identify their feelings
Tip #8: Help them identify their feelings
Tip #9: It’s not them, it’s what they do
Tip #9: It’s not them, it’s what they do
Tip #10: Praise them
Tip #10: Praise them
Tip #11: Use praise as a reward
Tip #11: Use praise as a reward
Tip #12: Set aside time for chats
Tip #12: Set aside time for chats
Tip #13: Stay connected
Tip #13: Stay connected
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