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Talking to your child about gambling

You might think that gambling isn’t an issue that affects many children. Yet a recent survey showed that a fifth of 11-16 year olds had gambled in the past 4 weeks. And research shows that the younger someone starts gambling, the more likely they are to have a problem with it in later life.

But by talking to your child about gambling and encouraging them to be open with you about what they do online, you can reduce the chance of them having problems when they’re older.

What are the laws around gambling in the UK?

The minimum legal age for gambling in the UK is 18 for the National Lottery, betting shops, bingo halls, casinos and online gambling, but this doesn’t necessarily stop under 18s getting involved. Some gaming machines in amusement arcades (like coin pushers, teddy grabbers and some lower stakes fruit machines) don’t have a minimum legal age.

Why is it important to talk to children about gambling?

The most common gambling activities for 11-16 year olds are private bets, scratchcards, fruit machines and playing cards. These may seem harmless, but if gambling gets out of control, it can lead to money worries, problems at school, isolation and depression.

In addition, many online games include activities that work in the same way as gambling does, encouraging children to spend money and take risks. As playing games is one of the most popular online activities for kids, it’s important to talk to your child about this, to help them make informed choices if they take part in these activities.

Here are some tips to help.

Tips for talking to your child about gambling

Should I be worried about loot boxes?

Loot boxes are items in virtual games (usually a sealed box image) that can be paid for with real money but contain unknown rewards. Although buying and opening loot boxes is not currently considered gambling, studies have identified a connection between certain forms of gaming and gambling.

In early 2016, the Gambling Commission identified loot boxes as a potential risk to children and young people as part of a wider review on concerns around video games and gambling themes. One of the main concerns is that the line between video gaming and gambling is becoming increasingly blurred.

There are various reasons why children may want to open loot boxes:

  • for gameplay advantages
  • to gain specific items and characters, and to create a collection
  • for the fun, excitement and thrills of opening the box itself
  • for cosmetic reasons, for example, to change the appearance of a character (this is known as a ‘skin’)
  • because they see them as good value and may be able to sell the contents online.

There’s no need to worry if your child opens the occasional loot box, but it’s a good idea to keep an eye on what they’re doing and how much money they’re spending, to make sure it doesn’t get out of control. You could also talk to them about how they feel about loot boxes, if or why they feel tempted to open them, and how often they actually contain the items they want.

You can find out more about loot boxes on the Parent Zone website.

How can I help keep my child safe when they’re gaming?

Here are some tips for supporting children to have positive experiences when they’re gaming:

  • If you can, spend some time playing online games with them, so you can see what they’re doing and chat to them about it.
  • Check the ratings and warning labels on the games your child plays and don’t let them play anything you think is unsuitable for their age. The Family Gaming Database helps you learn more about games and find games that suit your family's requirements.
  • Set time limits for playing games, and make sure they take regular screen breaks. The Internet Matters website shows you how to set time limits on various games consoles.
  • Set spending limits and keep track of how much they’re spending on games and within games. Again, the Internet Matters website shows you how you can set parental controls for this.
  • Set time aside for other activities, like playing outside.
  • Encourage your child to spend time with their friends doing other things, not just gaming.

In this short video, gaming expert Andy Robertson discusses how parents can help keep children safe while gaming online.

How would I know if my child had a problem with gambling?

Gambling is known as a ‘hidden addiction’, meaning that if someone’s gambling becomes a problem it can be difficult to notice when compared to other addictive behaviours such as taking drugs or drinking alcohol to excess. However, there are signs to look out for:

  • If your child finds it hard to stop playing a game that involves gambling or is always talking about it.
  • If they’re neglecting their school work, or not spending time with their friends anymore.
  • If they’ve lost interest in other hobbies they used to enjoy.
  • If they seem anxious, worried, guilty, depressed or irritable.
  • If they become more competitive than they used to be, and more keen to ‘be right’ about things.
  • If they become secretive or defensive about money.

Where can I get help and support?

Here are some resources to help you learn more about gambling and the support available: