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How do I support my child’s learning at home?

It’s natural to be a bit worried about how you’ll manage if your child has to learn from home again. But don’t forget, you’re not alone. 

Take things one day at a time and be kind to yourself. No one is expecting you to be a teacher – you’re already doing the most important job of all, loving your kids and being there for them.

Where do I even start?

First things first, remember to look after yourself, if you’re feeling less stressed then it’s easier to manage certain situations. Try to take each day at a time and not be too hard on yourself. You can find helpful advice for keeping calm on our page of mental health advice for parents during coronavirus and our pages about managing the challenges of parenting.

Does my child need to learn from home again?

Your child's school will let you know if they need to learn from home for any period of time. Our schools FAQ page has the latest information on schools in Scotland. You can also find out more about home and blended learning here.

Am I expected to homeschool my child?

Absolutely not. It's just about doing your best to support your child with the work their schools give them. This is very different from homeschooling, where a parent is entirely responsible for their child’s education.

What should I focus on if they have to learn from home?

The most important thing you could do for your children is support them to settle back into home learning. But this doesn’t mean needing to go through their school work all the time. 
 
The best way you can support your child is to set aside some time to talk to them about their schoolwork, and to have some fun! Below are some tips to help with this, and links to further resources that might help you.

In this short film, teacher Chris Smith shares his tips for supporting your children to learn from home.

How do I get them to do schoolwork when they refuse?

If trying to get your child to do schoolwork leads to arguments and tension, take a break. Go and have some fun for a while. You can always come back to it later on once everyone is feeling more calm.

No matter what age your child is, try not to worry. Spending time together is one of the best ways to support your child.

Tips if you have younger children

Start small. If you have a young child, the best thing you can do is play together. Read stories, sing songs, dance around and have fun. We’ve got fun family games to play indoors, ideas for ball games, ideas to keep children entertained in the kitchen and tips for making bathtime fun.

Let them take the lead and see what fun you can have. You could even ask them to help you make lunch and snacks or sort the washing – our page on getting the kids to help around the house has more ideas.

Tips if you have older children

If your children are older, their school will send work to be completed at home, as well as extra materials. Try not to feel overwhelmed by this – it’s a good thing, as it means you won’t have to find resources yourself. If you have any questions, your child’s school will have ways to support you.

If your child finds it difficult to concentrate on work, that’s okay. Help them to take time out and find a way that works for you both. Our page on supporting your child’s learning has more tips to help them study at home. 

Your children might be feeling worried if they have to return to learning from home, and that’s understandable. If this happens, it’s best to focus on making sure they’re feeling happy rather than simply completing homework sheets. Why not talk to your child about the things that interest them? Often, just talking and listening is the best place to start! 

Tips if you have teenagers

Tips if you have more than one child

If you’ve got more than one child at different stages of learning, it can be tricky juggling these different priorities. We’ve put together some tips to try to help you and your family.

Should I be worried about my child's education?

Keeping your child and your family safe, happy and healthy are the most important things parents and families should focus on if they have to learn from home.

But if your children aren't able to go to school or to their usual early learning setting, it’s totally understandable to be concerned that they might not be progressing in their learning as much as they should. The best thing you can do is not to put too much extra pressure on yourself and do what you need to do to get through the period. 

In this short film, Dr Janet Goodall from the Learning Foundation explains that there’s no such thing as ‘lost learning’ and that children have been learning all the time during this strange situation.

Should I worry about too much time spent playing?

The last year has been difficult for all parents and we’ve all been doing our best, so please don’t feel guilty about letting your child play if they have to learn from home. Play is a really important part of life, particularly at difficult times, and is actually part of Scotland’s school curriculum.

Playing helps children and young people:

  • stay emotionally healthy
  • stay physically active
  • relax and forget about any worries
  • learn and make sense of new experiences and changes in their world
  • cope with feelings that are difficult or frightening

Play helps children become more creative, learn to solve problems and work out what they think and how to respond. So if you see them putting face masks on their teddies or building a hospital out of blocks, or returning to games they used to play when they were younger, this is just their way of coping with the situation. It’s also important for older children and adults too! 

The best thing you can do to support them with learning at home is to give your child enough time and space to play every day and be prepared to put up with a bit of noise and mess. Get outside for exercise with your child each day, no matter what the weather, as it’s important for their development. If your child sees that you’re happy they’re playing, they’ll enjoy it more.

No matter what age your child is, we have lots of play activity ideas that can help develop their skills, have fun and keep you fit and healthy as a family.

What if my child has additional support needs?

If your child has additional support needs, their school might put in place extra support to help your child with learning from home. It’s natural to be anxious about what will happen. Schools will always contact parents if there’s going to be a change, but if you’re concerned then do get in touch with them.

Our page on supporting children with additional support needs to learn has more information.

Need more help?

If you have to balance looking after your children with working from home, we’ve got some great tips from other parents here

You can find more tips for learning at home here.

If you need further learning resources to help get you started, check out our page here

You'll find lots of information on the Parentzone Scotland website to help you support your child's learning at home.

Your child’s school would be in touch with advice and support on learning at home in the event they have to introduce it. For more information, you could get in touch with your child’s school. They’re here to help, and will make sure your child doesn’t miss out on learning, whatever might happen.

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